Dear Dave,
Most studios do not provide any teaching supplemental material such as books or videos, especially franchises. As a matter of fact, franchises keep strict controls on their materials from their teachers as well.
Depending on the level of intstruction you are receiving the average rates go for $60-$75 per hour (or 55 minutes) of private instruction (depending on your location). Groups average between $10-15 per lesson hour.
It is not uncommon that either - you would have to make notes during your lesson or pay your instructor for his/her time to note down your steps for you. I understand this can be quite an undertaking, my husband who is an independent professional teacher has on some occasions written out specific, detailed information for students (without charge) that took quite some time and if he did that for each student, he would not be able to make a living. Unfortunately, most of the materials teachers use do come through professional organizations and is generally written in such a way that a lay person would have great diffulty understanding the details. i.e ISTD syllabus books, etc.
Actually my husband and I have started a project this last year on some illustrative dance booklets, but it does take a great deal of time to illustrate accurately. A couple of the responses you received provided some good leads for you to check out.
In reference to >> My question is can I go to my studio, or other places and demand them to teach us using my material?<<
Most likely not, franchises are pretty strict about following 'their own' syllabuses and teaching methods. You probably would have much more luck with an independent studio/instructor. They are generally much more wiling to accomodate you.
The best way to find an independent studio/instructor is through referral. Another way is to check out your Yellow Page listings, call and ask about their socials and attend a social and see how they welcome you and observe the level of dancing (including the instructors) Unfortunately many studios hire beginner instructor's (both franchise and independent) so beware. I would ask about their certification or how many years have they been teaching ballroom?
I would also recommend that you try group lessons...they cost a lot less, you have some more time to review what you are learning and probably some time for making notes in a $10-15/hour class as opposed to a $70/45 min lesson. Once you have learned the steps in groups, you can refine your style and technique in the privates.
I hope that gives you some insight to what goes on in the dance business and hope you find it helpful.
Sincerely,
Rebecca (a teacher's wife)