Hi, everyone:
I am coming again.
After practicing many times.
When I am dancing Waltz with lady currently.
I can gradually start listening the weight of both. And then I can move and turn with homanic feeling. That's meaning I can lead and she can follow well, at least I think so. Becuase I can feel there is just "one weight" not two again.
Althougn, it seems great, but I don't know if it is right or not.
Becuase (1): I just keep contact with her by my arms,but no body contact. Of course, I try keeping my frame stable all the time.
(2):Although I feel so smooth, but I know I just can focuse the weight of both and direction of movement, cannot care what steps I danced. So sometime I forget to dance variations but several simple basic figures all the time.
(3):My teachers told me several times about "keep your heart ot her heart". they meant keep a face to face position with lady. I can not reach it before or even when I focus on doing as hey asked, that make me can't turn enough amout of turn. But When I didn't care about what our related-position was, just care about weight of both, leaded her and then followed her, I could turn more enough than before easily without rush power. If I do so, can I keep heart to heart?

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thank you

Your teacher is telling you to do the correct thing. The problem is that the description of heart to heart is not easily understood by untrained students. It is used to correct improper positions of competition dancers. Your teacher is not a teacher if this is the way you are being taught. It is necessary for the student to understand what the teacher wants before the student can attempt to do what is wanted. Your dance position sounds terrible and I am certain that you are not easy to dance with. You need a lot of basic instruction because if the dance position is bad everything else will be worse. You won't get what you need on the internet. Search elsewhere. Best of luck.