Around here, most leads take lessons from followers and vice versa -- but our most experienced instructor also teaches lots of leader students as parts of couples. Most leads are male and do not like to dance with a man doing the follow part; also, how would you do pro-am that way?
That being said, we do not have a highly experienced female pro here, and as a result we have a lot more good female dancers (with the male pro) than good male dancers (who are left over from the previous female pro, or who go to other venues for instruction and come back to social dance). We do have a new, less experienced female pro here now, she can improve the man's existing skills but may for a while yet be limited in how much she can teach new moves.
I am doing pro-am with my instructor this year and he does a way better follow part than I do
, so I am comfortable with how I will progress. I do now and then take lessons from other follows though, to get the more feminine things like arm movement.
--Bell