It is hard to find men who like to dance period.
It is even harder to find men who will dance long enough to become silver.
It is even harder to find a male silver dancer with whom you have chemistry with.

I rarely find a lady partner with whom I really connect. When I do the feeling is tremendous and the dancing seems out of this world. Fortunately I have that with my own instructor! When she and I dance it feels like we are ready to take on the world. If I were going to compete I would want that kind of connection to be there. If other men feel the same way I do then that also adds to the difficulty of finding your partner.